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Motivations to Change Your Own Character
by Ron Kurtus (4 March 2007)
Although most people do not think about or judge their own character, events in your life may motivate a change. You may realize that you are not achieving your goals and decide to change your personal character. Also, you may see that the opinion other people have of you is not what you would like, so you decide to change your social character. If you move to another area or change religions, you may have to adapt your rule-based character. Usually, the change in character is in the positive direction, but there are also cases where people change in the negative direction.
Questions you may have include:
- Why change your personal character?
- Why change your social character?
- Why change your rule-based character?
This lesson will answer those questions. There is a mini-quiz near the end of the lesson.
Personal character
Personal character traits are attitudes concerning overcoming challenges and achieving goals. Something must motivate you to change the personal character traits that you have been taught.
Positive
You may realize that you are not moving forward because of certain fears a lack of determination. Perhaps you were taught as a young child to worry about failing or getting hurt. Since this is holding you back, you may file to change your personal character to become a more courageous and determined person.
Negative
Some people become discouraged because of their lack of success, perhaps due to overestimating their abilities and chances. Such a person may become fearful and will avoid taking risks necessary to achieve a goal. Others may simply give up and have a negative personal character trait of one who doesn't try.
Social character
Social character concerns your attitudes in dealing with others. You may change in a positive or negative direction. Something must motivate you to change the social character traits that you have been taught.
Positive
You may have grown up with training from your parents or peers that you can get what you want by being dishonest. But after being caught from your dishonesty, you realize that it does not pay. Perhaps you have been severely punished from being dishonest. Thus you make an effort to change your character and to be extremely honest. You are also motivated by this by saying that an honest reputation is worth while.
Negative
On the other hand, there are people who have been honest and have found that they are falling behind others in their peer group that are dishonest. You may feel that being honest does not pay and decide to change your character.
We received a letter from a woman in a former communist country who said that she always tried to be an honest woman, but the other women in her community scoffed at her and called her a fool. This gave her a difficult choice of having the social character in which she was brought up or in following the rule-based character of her community's culture.
Rule-based character
Rule-based character is following the rules or laws of your government, cultural group, or religion. Something must motivate you to change the rule-based character traits that you have been taught.
Positive
A person with a rebellious personality may find that the consequences of breaking the rules are so great that it is not worth it. The police may arrest you or your family may disown you. In such a case, you may decide to change your ways and change your character and obey the laws and rules.
In the case of religion, the consequences of disobedience are not obvious, unless the church also controls government or cultural rules. But often, when you change religions, you may become very devout and obedient to the rules of your new religion.
Negative
People who move in the negative direction concerning rule-based character usually have been wronged by the group and become bitter toward it. This can be seen in protesters against certain government policies in which they completely disagree. Some Catholics became atheists after suffering abuse from a priest.
In conclusion
Events may motivate a change in your character. If you are not achieving your goals, you may decide to change your personal character. You may see the opinion other people and decide to change your social character. If you move to another area or change religions, you may have to adapt your rule-based character. Usually, the change in character is in the positive direction, but there are also cases where people change in the negative direction.
Sometimes, change is good
Resources
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Mini-quiz to check your understanding
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